I’m doing a lot of thinking about goal-setting in 2014. Not “New Year’s Resolutions” or “wishes”. Actual goal setting. Achievable goals. Meaningful goals. Measureable goals. Goals with a definite start and end. In short… goals. Thinking about the barriers I’ve had in the past to accomplishing these goals, I came up with the following barriers:
1. Fear – Fear of failing, fear of the unknown, fear of not finishing well!
2. Apathy – I’m so lazy in many areas of my life, and so passionate and gung-ho in other areas. Overcoming apathy in the “hard things” is challenging.
3. People-approval – Sometimes I get so focused on feeling approved and accepted by others, that I’m not willing to risk and get outside of my comfort zone to do something, especially when I may “feel” rejected in the process.
4. Undisciplined mindset – Related to #2, I love generating ideas and find it difficult to follow them through. It is difficult for me to discipline my mind to do the hard work of “thinking and deciding” to move to the next step.
5. FINISHING – I have 20-30 unfinished books by my bedside. I have started and never finished many Bible studies. I have bought parenting guides that I never worked through. You get the picture. I keep wanting the next purchase to somehow solve my issue of finishing things, and finishing them well. Truth is, like losing weight, often the starting of a project is the most rewarding and possibly the easiest part of it. It is slogging through the details, overcoming the hurdles, and finishing that is tough. I want to do that this year!
There… I feel like I’ve opened up my journal to all of you. But that’s it. Those are my barriers. What are your barriers?